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Earlier this month I had a blast being a part of Dina and Chris’ fabulous wedding at the Edwards Mansion in Redlands.  From their fun engagement session – I just knew they were going to absolutely Rock it out on their weddng day – and boy did they ever bring it on! lol!  They had so much fun!  Not only were they totally fierce (serioulsy.  Dina – you are so fierce! LOL!) – their bridal party were also just as fabulous!  LOVE IT!!!   They also had an absolutely fun reception (you gotta check out how animated their friends were on the dance floor!) – I love weddings were everyone is just enjoying themselves … made me wanna get down and get my own groove on! haha!

For this fab event I had my very good friend Nikki as my 2nd shooter – thank you Nikki – you did a fab job!!!!

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So has anyone else noticed that this is my 3rd post in 7 days!!! Can I get a little happy dance going!?!?! YAY!!!!  I actually have a few posts today… just playing catch up … but it still counts as a blog post… right! LOL!!

So over  a month ago I had a blast capturing Talisa and James’ engagement session at the UCR Gardens (… I know… I know… shame on me for not posting anything before).  They are such a sweet couple… two of the most caring people I’ve ever met!!!  Talisa is so shy and sweet… James – he’s a whole different story! James is a character and a half!!!!  He had Talisa and me rolling from laughter!  They really do balance each other out perfectly…

I can’t wait to do their wedding in October!!

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Fun and giggly engagement session at the Riverside Gardens

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check out Talisa's amazing eyes!!!

So those 2 or 3 people who might read my blog every now and then might know that I always promise to blog more often, then months go by and not a word from me! I just can’t dive into this whole blogging universe full force yet.  I always promise that I will, then life happens and I forget.  I was seriously just about to give up, when a dear friend of mine reminded me how important it is to blog in our little wedding photography universe.  (Thanks Elizabeth for always keeping me motivated to open up some more!).  So I decided to try to follow her nudges and try to open up some more. 

But what do I blog about? There is only so many tips I can think of… you know? So Elizabeth brought to my attention that I might have cut off my own blog-life-line by limiting myself to just blogging about tips and pictures.  She encouraged me to open up and show the world a little more about me… afterall, if I want to connect with people, what better way to do so then by showing them my true self… no matter what that is.  So I’m going to open up the blog to a lot more than just my photo tips.

I’ll still blog about tips that come to me as I shoot weddings (thanks to those amazing brides that tell me how great a tip was that they read on here!! You guys rock for reading through!!!).  I’ll also blog about my life, my family, my fun little photo projects… and anything that really comes to my mind.  I figure I should trust most couples to book me even if they realize I’m a complete and total dork! LOL!

So first thing is first… I’ve modified my about me page here on the blog… feel free to check it out – you will definitely see the nerd in me, but I promise I’m a friendly nerd J.

I’m also adding a new ‘page’ – which I will appropriately call “my dorkable quirks and habits” – this is just in case you aren’t afraid of a little TMI about me J . 

Then I will start blogging once a week… even if it’s just to show you what I had for dinner that day!

So first… just because pictures make everything prettier – a picture from my latest enagement session last week (I’ll be blogging about it soon :-) )

Amazing Engagement Session at Downtown Riverside

Beautiful Engagement Session at Downtown Riverside

So New Year… New Look.  I finally updated my website, as well as the look of my blog (which I know it was definitely needed! lol!).  Not a major re-design, but just a new color palette, and a bunch of new galleries to look at.  I love showcasing my favorite weddings from the previous year on my site… I wish I could showcase all of them.  Let me tell you – it took like over  week to get this minor re-design done! LOL!  As some of you might know – I do all of my own design work (from marketing materials, to albums, to my own website) – I can tell you I don’t update my site too often (maybe twice a year) – and I always get stuck somewhere.  This time I got stuck in the galleries… why did it take me 3 days just to update them?!?!? I seriously can’t tell you why… they were so simple, yet I kept making silly little mistakes and having to start all over again! LOL!  Next time I’ll give myself a month to do minor web updates! ha! ha! 

So along with the new look for the site and blog… I’m so excited to be able to start announcing some of the plans for the new year… so… here are my new year’s resolutions. 

1 – as always – loose 10 pounds (yeah… as most of us do – I have this in my list every year… but somehow I always end up gaining 5 lbs at the end of the year instead! LOL!) 

2 - eat better and stop being such a carb fanatic (yeah… I realize this is a direct link to #1…haha!) – I seriously LOVE LOVE LOVE cookies and breads and cakes.  I remember, when I was pregnant (as this is always my excuse! LOL!), I used to buy boxes of those oatmeal marshmallow cookies- and I used to eat an entire box in one sitting!!! NO JOKE!!! I haven’t done that since I had my son, but if you put me in front of a good movie with a box of cookies, I might just go through half a box without blinking! ha! ha! 

3 – Let the little things go but treasure what’s truly important - I have learned through my life’s ups and severe downs that some things are very important: family, friends, and love.  Everything else is seriously so little in comparison.  

4 – Love my two boys more and more each day – this is like a piece of cake for me (see… there I go… day dreaming about having a delicious piece of cake! lol!) – but I do want to love with more joy and less tears.  Josue knows I love him with all my soul… and I have to remind myself that my little angel wouldn’t want me to cry as much as I do sometimes.  

5 – Love my hubby for the soul mate and rock that he is to me.  Enough said :-)  

6 – Enjoy each and every one of the weddings that I get the honor to be a part of! 

Those were all personal resolutions… 

Now for my business/work resolutions… 

1 – Remember that positive energy will bring positive clients … I’ve always believed that my easy-going and energetic personality is what brings to me such amazing brides and grooms. :-)  

2 – Learn and grow more as a photographer… learn, be creative, and enjoy it!  

3 – Finally launch my new invitation services – this has been something I’ve been working on for a while now, but I tend to hesitate so much and to over-think everything that I really need to sit down and finalize the website and start offering this.  By the way  -thank you to all of my amazing clients that have encouraged me to branch out this part of my creativity!  Hopefully 2010 will be an great year for my custom-designed hand made invitations! 

4- network more- this is definitely something I need to do more of … as easy going as I am, I just can’t seem to know how to talk to ’strangers’ - LOL! Boy did I sound cheesy there or what! haha

and finally… 

5 - Be grateful for all of the amazing clients that I am blessed to work with … be thankful that I have the honor of being a part of so many wonderful moments in their lives!!! 

So just because it’s a photo blog – here’s a pretty picture to look at ;-) 

Simi Valley Wedding

Here is to more smiles, more happiness, and more love in our lives!!!

Beautiful Orange Hill Wedding

September 15, 2009

This was a recent wedding that we did at the beautiful Orange Hill Restaurant…  I love that location! It’s so beautiful and it has breathtaking views!  Andria and James were absolutely great to work with… they wanted a ton of pictures – and what photographer doesn’t love that?!?! LOL!!!  I wish them the absolute best!!!! 

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Getting ready at the Ayres Suite in Orange

Getting ready at the Ayres Suite in Orange

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Ceremony took place at the beautiful Orange Hill Restaurant

Ceremony took place at the beautiful Orange Hill Restaurant

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Amazing Malibu Wedding

September 5, 2009

I want to share an amazing wedding with everyone!  This wedding was in Malibu… at the Malibu West Club and it was done flawlessly!!!! It was fun, warm, and such a blast!!!!  Rhonda and Erik were on a budget, yet they pulled off one of the most visually beautiful weddings I have seen! The details were flawless.  Rhonda and Michelle (her wedding planner) did a great job!   These are a few of my favorite pictures (out of over 1200 images!!!)

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So your officiant has just pronounced you husband and wife… it’s now time for your first official kiss as a married couple in front of your family and closest friends.  I say… let’s make it last!!!

I see far too many couples that give each other a quick peck that last a quarter of a nano-second… and you know what that means? – that means your photographer might or might not have caught that nano-second of a moment.  Or they might have caught you either going in for the kiss or coming out of it… since it was lightning fast. 

… I understand that some couples might feel a little awkward kissing not only in front of their family and friends with all eyes on them (I’ve met more than a few brides that truly wish that they weren’t the center of attention that day) – but sometimes it’s even more uncomfortable kissing in a temple/church to top it off!  I know… I understand… but I always beg my brides to hold it a few seconds (2 or 3 seconds would be awesome!!!).  Of course, your photographer is surely ready pointing his camera right at you and with the shutter pressed half-way …. just to make sure they raise their chances of getting that shot.  But, even the most expensive camera equipments might not capture that lightning-fast peck quick enough… you know what I mean?  Give them a few seconds to make sure they get one or maybe two or three shots of that first kiss. 

I sometimes get really extra lucky and they kiss for a few seconds and I can get a few different shots of the kiss – one that is zoomed out, and even one that is zoomed in!! I love giving my clients a few options for the first kiss.  The zoomed out picture is always very popular and brides love it because it’s usually a grand moment for the day… so you get to see the reactions of your bridal party as well as the setting where it took place.  The close-up of the first kiss is a super emotional image to capture because I know it will bring back wonderful memories!! It’s a very intimate shot that will bring butterflies to your stomach each time you see it.  It’s a truly sincere kiss… filled with love, happiness, and even a sense of gratefulness for each other’s willingness to profess your love for each other (I know that sounds a little ‘mushy-mushy’ – but really it’s a great shot to see over and over again).  Of course, I know some circumstances won’t allow for that close-up shot no matter how long you kiss for … depending on how close we are allowed to get (see my previous post for indoor ceremony rules to consider)… but still – that extra few seconds will give your photographer the opportunity to experiment for a brief moment. 

I have to admit, I am guilty of missing the first kiss – but only once… and it was a combination of circumstances that caused that little incident.  The kiss was lighting fast, but that wasn’t the reason why I missed it..  it was an over-zealous guest that jumped right in front of me to take his shot that made me miss my shot (he literally put his camera right in front of mine… my jaw dropped to the floor – I had never had a guest cross that line before!!!).  I actually did take the shot and I did include it in the bride’s images, since I didn’t want her to think that I didn’t even try to capture that moment.  I took 3 fast shots of that kiss… so I got them going in for the kiss, then the next image was the guest’s camera, then the next shot was them coming out of the kiss. 

So today’s lesson… hold that first kiss!!! LOL!!!

The First Kiss - at a beautiful Temecula winery

The First Kiss - at a beautiful Temecula winery

This part of the wedding day is a part that some brides really like to have in their collection of images, while others don’t really care for them much.  It’s definitely not a vital part of the day, but if it can be fit into timeline of events, and if you don’t mind the photographer being there – then it can add to the overall story of your wedding day.

Personally, I didn’t have any getting ready images of my wedding day.  I was a little self-conscious about having my photographer there while I was getting ready – but then again, my photographer was a man.  I actually had to drive to the hair salon to get my hair done (as well as my bridesmaids and my mom), and I did my own makeup (as well as my bridesmaids and my mom) – and we started really early in the morning, so I didn’t feel it was necessary to have him there at that time.  I also knew we would be too rushed and I didn’t really want him getting in my way (not that he did, but I know how I am – the more people are in a room when I’m stressed… the more frustrated I can become).  So that’s why I decided to forego any getting ready images on my own wedding day… but it is definitely something every bride should consider. 

So what does the getting ready include?  Well… that’s entirely up to you .  It can be everything from the beginning of the makeup/hair, or just the last few minutes, or just the putting on of the dress, or just the getting out of the house.  I have done each one of those scenarios at one point or another.  I always recommend to think about what you really want pictures of.  Do you want pictures of you without your makeup on at all?  Do you want pictures of the play-by-play process of your hair getting done?  Remember that getting your  hair done can take a while – and you really won’t have much variety of images (they’ll all look similar since there really isn’t much movement).  So would you like a ton of images of your hair getting done? Or just a few final shots (like the last steps of the hair do?).  Same thing goes for the makeup… you can have  your photographer be there the entire time… or just the last few minutes – when you’re getting you’re  putting on your lipstick and possibly blush.  Then you can decide if you want to have the photographer shoot the putting on of the dress… these are the most popular (and can be the most beautiful) shots of the getting ready portion of the day.  Here, you can also decide what part of the putting on of the dress you would like to have.  Do you want him/her to shoot you putting on the undergarments (like the corset/bra/petticoat)? Or would you like to start once you’re putting the dress over your head (or walking into the dress)? Or until after it’s on… do you want just the zipping up of the dress?  I always tell my clients to call me in when they’re ready and comfortable with us starting to shoot.  Some brides are very open and comfortable from the beginning, while others just want the zipping up of the dress – and either way is perfectly fine.  So definitely think about what you are comfortable with…and discuss it with your photographer.  Remember that if you will be getting an on-line gallery, all of these images will go on there as well… if you would like to shoot from the beginning, but don’t want some of these on the gallery – make sure to tell your photographer so that they exclude them from the gallery. 

During this time before the ceremony, if you have some extra time, you can always take advantage and shoots some family portraits that you can take off your list of formal shots. 

So how long do you really need for getting ready shots? Typically I recommend about 1 to 1.5 hours tops – but I have done getting ready shots in as little as 15 minutes (when the bride has a limited timeline but still wants these shots).  Typically I start the day one the hair has been started, so we capture the last phases of the hair do process, and plenty of the putting on of the makeup.  I usually don’t recommend starting earlier than that because typically you will not want to see hundreds of images of the play-by-play of each strand of hair being put in place.  In the couple of occasions when I have had to do them in 15 minutes or less, that’s usually because we are low on time – so the bride and I have discussed ways to be efficient during this time.  This means that their hair and makeup are totally done – I shoot her putting on her lipstick and touching up her blush – this creates the look of those shots and only takes a few seconds.  Then we shoot her putting on her jewelry (also just a few seconds).  Then the dress, and the shoes … all done the last 10 minutes (since the dress can take a while to put on depending on the number of buttons or lace-ups).  Then we’re off to the ceremony!  I know it seems quite rushed, but it can be done!

So make sure you discuss your getting ready needs with your photographer…you guys can come up with a good timeline and discuss what you would like to capture. 

Getting Ready series...

Getting Ready series...

Photojournalistic means a ‘hands-off’ approach to photography, where your photographer is there to observe and document your day as it happens without interfering or interrupting the events to say ‘cheese’.  In essence, it is a very sincere way of capturing the story of your wedding day, as a true story-telling of the event.

Photojournalistic wedding photography is great… especially If you guys are animated, excited, and are willing to be yourselves.  By ‘you’ I mean not only the bride and groom, but I also mean the bridal party and even your guests.  If you guys are not afraid to show your sincere emotions (whether it’s happiness, excitement, nervousness, sadness, etc), then photojournalism is a great approach for you.  If you know that your family, your bridal party, or even you and/or your fiance are shy and are a little embarrassed in front of the camera, then that means they might not be willing to be themselves when they sense that they are being photographed.  Some people show their emotions in their eyes… in their smiles… in their expressions (I know I’m like that) – but then when the camera is around, they’re afraid of looking odd, or of looking imperfect (that’s me too) – in this case, a 100% pure photojournalistic approach might not be the best choice for the entire event.  I know we have all seen those amazing photojournalistic photographer’s websites… with their images full of emotion and drama… and we all want to look just like that!!!  Keep one little thing in mind… even the best of photographers only display the best of the best of their work… so out of hundreds of weddings, they can only display a few of them, which would always be their best work – and some of that work might not have been 100% photojournalistic… some of that work might have been ‘guided’ or they might have taken an ‘editorial’ approach instead. 

Editorial photography is different in the sense that it is posed, but the poses are not traditional poses, they are guided and have a specific ‘look‘ to them.  Think of editorial photography as the style that you see all throughout the wedding magazines. 

A truly 100% photojournalistic approach does require that everyone in the event is aware of the photographer and his camera.  Even though the photographer won’t be interfering in the event, the bridal party must be aware of the camera, so that they don’t block him/her off or prevent access to intimate moments.  Not that these moments would be prevented on purpose, but in social situations most people get really excited in their little group and we tend to form a circle of conversation -  keep the photographer’s presence in mind so that that circle doesn’t close him off.  Give the photographer access to your fun and to your intimate moments – because those are the moments you’ll want to remember forever!  Keeping that in mind will give you a better understanding of what you are asking your photographer when you ask him/her to take a photojournalistic approach.

I personally love capturing intimate moments – they’re so full of sincerer and emotions!!!  But I do have to admit that most of the brides that I encounter do not request a 100% photojournalistic approach, but rather a combination of styles throughout the day (photojournalistic, editorial, and even traditional – all in one event).  And I do think that this combination works great and gives you the most complete and rounded portfolio of images to choose from. 

During the getting ready portion, I do try to stand back and capture the excitement of the beginning of the  day.  Although I am known to throw a few directions/suggestions in the mix.  It might be that the bride was leaning down as she was putting on her shoes, and the light hit her hair ever so perfectly… I might say ‘hold it right there for a moment.’ 

During the ceremony it’s all photojournalistic, as you can imagine. 

During the formals is usually where the more guided poses take place.  A wedding is a joyful event when family and friends get together to celebrate the happiness of the couple… and this coming together may not happen often (sometimes weddings are the only time when they get together, and is therefore the most convenient moment for a long-overdue portrait).  Because of this, parents of the couples usually want to have formal family portraits – which they like to be traditional and posed.  So we take care of these, of course.  For the bridal party shots we take a couple of formal posed shots; then, if the bridal party is ‘game’ we’ll do some fun shots or unconventional posing – editorial style.  Once again, we try to read the bridal party to see what they are comfortable with… and if they would prefer simple, traditional, posed shots, then that’s fine – if they feel like having fun and jumping around, then we’ll jump right along with them (and capture great shots along the way!). 

As for the bride and groom portraits… once again, I like to take the formal portraits (although I do try to make the shots more modern and editorial in style so that even if the pose is a little traditional, it will still be an amazing portrait).  So I do take traditional shots of the bride and groom, but I definitely try to bring out their personalities as much as possible – so we make the shots fun and exciting, with a hint of romance and love of course.  I also play with different angles to give the shots a more modern look. 

The reception is definitely all photojournalistic; I definitely focus on capturing the fun and excitement of the reception.  I might give directions for the cake cutting (only if I think a certain angle will work best for the lighting), but for any other event of the day I try to blend in and just capture the events as they happen. 

So what is best for you?  If you are very particular about what you want to see in the final images, then that is something you want to discuss with your photographer.  Remember to keep your family and friends in mind… if you want a truly 100% photojournalistic approach, and you know your bridal party is shy and you know they might not wear their emotions openly – then keep in mind that your photographer will most likely have to interfere here and there to capture the best shots for you. 

Whether it’s photojournalistic, traditional, editorial, or a combination – my main goal is always to tell the story of your wedding day, so that one day those images will tell the story of your wedding day to your children and to your grandchildren.  I think that is the main goal of all photographers – to capture those special moments so that they can be treasured for generations to come.

An amazingly fun and funky first dance to remember!!!

An amazingly fun and funky first dance to remember!!!

At weddings, having Ana around is great because we can save time and be more efficient with our time frames.  Usually during the formals Ana will take the guys (groom and groomsmen) while I take the girls (bride and bridesmaids), so that we can move along and get the bridal party off to the party ASAP.  She’ll also take different angles than me (even when we’re shooting the same pose) – which always brings wonderful surprises when I go into her images!!  It’s always great to offer a bride a new angle that she wasn’t expecting.  During the ceremony, you’ll find her in the front of the ceremony – capturing those candid emotional moments between the bride and groom; and during the reception you’ll find her by the dance floor, capturing the fun of the evening with the tripod.

Ana is my main 2nd photographer.  She is my right hand at most weddings.  Ana has been with Studio Eternity from the very first day.  Actually, Ana helped start the company with me.  We have known each other since 7th grade, and have been really good friends since high school!  Ana and I always knew we would do something together… we always knew we were meant to work together.  We both went to FIDM (she went as a Visual Designer, I went as a Fashion Designer – yes… I have a degree in Fashion Design as well).  So after FIDM we always thought we would open a boutique or start a fashion line or something of the sort, but I personally realized the fashion industry wasn’t for me.  I love the design aspect of it, but I was not a fan of the ‘industry’ and the personality you have to have to succeed in that world (those that know me, know I am definitely not ‘cut-throat’ or overly aggressive).  So I knew that wasn’t the field for me, therefore our boutique idea went up in the air.  When I was planning my own wedding, Ana and I thought we should start a wedding planning business, but that never really went anywhere (I’m not really sure why we never did).  So one day I approached her about the photography studio, and she was all in with me!  She has been my 2nd photographer since then.  She goes to most of the weddings I do (there have been a couple where she’s not available, but she’s there at most of them). 

 

Ana’s background in visual design has always been a great fit for wedding photography.  She has a great eye for detail!  It is this visual design background and attention to detail that brides always tend to pick up on – and she’s usually the person they’ll go to for advice on how things look and how to make their vision work.  She’s definitely in the right industry doing what she absolutely loves to do!

beautiful candid moment between the bride and groom - captured by Ana while I was taking their formal portraits

beautiful candid moment between the bride and groom - captured by Ana while I was taking their formal portraits