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Earlier this month I had a blast being a part of Dina and Chris’ fabulous wedding at the Edwards Mansion in Redlands.  From their fun engagement session – I just knew they were going to absolutely Rock it out on their weddng day – and boy did they ever bring it on! lol!  They had so much fun!  Not only were they totally fierce (serioulsy.  Dina – you are so fierce! LOL!) – their bridal party were also just as fabulous!  LOVE IT!!!   They also had an absolutely fun reception (you gotta check out how animated their friends were on the dance floor!) – I love weddings were everyone is just enjoying themselves … made me wanna get down and get my own groove on! haha!

For this fab event I had my very good friend Nikki as my 2nd shooter – thank you Nikki – you did a fab job!!!!

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So those 2 or 3 people who might read my blog every now and then might know that I always promise to blog more often, then months go by and not a word from me! I just can’t dive into this whole blogging universe full force yet.  I always promise that I will, then life happens and I forget.  I was seriously just about to give up, when a dear friend of mine reminded me how important it is to blog in our little wedding photography universe.  (Thanks Elizabeth for always keeping me motivated to open up some more!).  So I decided to try to follow her nudges and try to open up some more. 

But what do I blog about? There is only so many tips I can think of… you know? So Elizabeth brought to my attention that I might have cut off my own blog-life-line by limiting myself to just blogging about tips and pictures.  She encouraged me to open up and show the world a little more about me… afterall, if I want to connect with people, what better way to do so then by showing them my true self… no matter what that is.  So I’m going to open up the blog to a lot more than just my photo tips.

I’ll still blog about tips that come to me as I shoot weddings (thanks to those amazing brides that tell me how great a tip was that they read on here!! You guys rock for reading through!!!).  I’ll also blog about my life, my family, my fun little photo projects… and anything that really comes to my mind.  I figure I should trust most couples to book me even if they realize I’m a complete and total dork! LOL!

So first thing is first… I’ve modified my about me page here on the blog… feel free to check it out – you will definitely see the nerd in me, but I promise I’m a friendly nerd J.

I’m also adding a new ‘page’ – which I will appropriately call “my dorkable quirks and habits” – this is just in case you aren’t afraid of a little TMI about me J . 

Then I will start blogging once a week… even if it’s just to show you what I had for dinner that day!

So first… just because pictures make everything prettier – a picture from my latest enagement session last week (I’ll be blogging about it soon :-) )

Amazing Engagement Session at Downtown Riverside

Beautiful Engagement Session at Downtown Riverside

Next we have the beautiful Natalya.  Seriously… check out her amazing eyes!!! Isn’t she just stunning! 

Thanks for being such a great sport Natalya – you’re awesome!!

Snow Trash The Dress Bridal Session

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Lake Arrowhead Bridal Session

Back in November I had the honor of photographing Tom and May’s wedding, and I kept meaning to blog it (but we all know how I am with this whole blogging thing! LOL!).  I definitely don’t want to put it off any longer.  I absolutely LOVED working with Tom and May – seriously one of my favorite couples EVER!!!  I did their engagement session back a few months ago (remember their amazing smiles!?!? – Click here to refresh your memory).  I knew then that they would be awesome on their wedding day!  They are so fun, so happy, so in love – and best of all: they put their complete trust in me!! Seriously … that is one of the key ingredients to amazing wedding photography – absolutely trust your wedding photographer.  Afterall, you did hire them for a reason… so trust in their creativity and in their talent!

Tom and May had an absolutely amazing wedding… the ceremony was beautiful (of course :-) … but their reception was absolutely STUNNING!  They chose to have their reception at The Vineyards in Simi Valley - which has amazing views!!!  Tom and May did a fantastic job with the receptin decor… absolutely stunning – from the lighting to the linens… everything was stunning!!

Ceremony:  Saint Robert Bellarmine Catholic Church
Reception:  The Vineyards in Simi Valley, CA
A big THANK YOU to Elizabeth… who was my awesome second shooter for this wedding… thank you Elizabeth! You did great!!

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Getting Ready at the Church - May... you are seriously stunning!!!

St. Bellarmine church in Burbank

Ceremony took place at the beautiful St. Bellarmine church in Burbank California

 We took SOOO many pictures of the beautiful couple at The Vineyards! I have never had so many bride and groom portraits to go through!  It took me hours to narrow it down to my favorite 100!!!  – which reminds me… the more time you have for your bride and groom pictures… the better!  We had close to an hour alone with Tom and May.  I realize that this can be difficult (if not nearly impossible) to accomodate in some cases… but if you can have more than 20 minutes of you guys by your selves… you will have amazing images to treasure for a lifetime!!! 

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Simi Valley Wedding Photography

The Vineyards in Simi Valley Wedding

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The Vineyards Wedding Photographer

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Check out this amazing wedding Reception decor!!!! – did Tom and May rock it out or what?!?!?! 

The Vineyards Wedding Reception

LOVE the blue lighting!!!

The Vineyards Simi Valley Wedding Photography

So I totally know I keep slacking off with my blog :-( - I keep telling myself I need to post as I finish a wedding.  I seriously even have an alarm on my cell phone that rings every Sunday at 6 pm saying: “WRITE ON BLOG TONIGHT!!!” And you know what I do every time I see that alarm?!?!  – you guessed it… I hit the ‘ignore’ button! LOL!  My husband keeps asking me what the point of the alarm is… and I keep insisting it’s the only way I’ll remember! I’m such a dork! ha! ha!

So here’s a wedding I did recently that I loved shooting!!!

First… the beautiful bride and handsome groom are the totally sweet Maria and Alfonso.  When I did their engagement session they seemed a little nervous and a little shy… so I was expecting a very shy Maria again.  Boy was I ever wrong!!! I absolutely loved both of them! They were so willing to anything we asked them to do and they totally rocked my world!! LOL!

Their wedding was in the San Fernando area… so we took their formals at the San Fernando Mission.  It was awesome!!!!  We started off taking care of the family and bridal party formals – then we had over 2 hours to shoot with Maria and Alfonso – all alone!! I loved it!!!  One thing I always tell my couples is that when we do the bride and groom portion of the day – I recommend doing it alone… away from family and friends.  The reason for this is that most people tend to get nervous if they have a crowd, and they may feel too ’silly’ to do something just because mom and dad are watching.  What does this mean for me as the photographer:  a bride and groom that might look stiff and a little too traditional.  If I can get them alone for a while… I know I can get them to laugh and giggle and just have tons of fun – and if we have more than 30 minutes to work with, that’s even better!! LOL!  To make things even better… the videographers we worked with were awesome too – we worked really well together and bounced ideas off of each other… which Maria and Alfonso were more than happy to try out for us :-).   So I was in photographer heaven: a beautiful mission, a super happy and excited bride and groom, and 2 full hours of alone time with them!!!  Awesomeness to the 10th degree!!!!!

So… without further delay – Maria and Alfonso!

We started the day with Maria in her home... I loved her wedding jewelry!!

We started the day with Maria in her home... I loved her wedding jewelry!!

 

Look at Maria just rocking it at the San Fernando Mission!!!

Look at Maria just rocking it at the San Fernando Mission!!!

 

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We then headed over to the reception… which was held at the beautiful St. Nicholas Ballroom in Northridge

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Beautiful Orange Hill Wedding

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This was a recent wedding that we did at the beautiful Orange Hill Restaurant…  I love that location! It’s so beautiful and it has breathtaking views!  Andria and James were absolutely great to work with… they wanted a ton of pictures – and what photographer doesn’t love that?!?! LOL!!!  I wish them the absolute best!!!! 

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Getting ready at the Ayres Suite in Orange

Getting ready at the Ayres Suite in Orange

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Ceremony took place at the beautiful Orange Hill Restaurant

Ceremony took place at the beautiful Orange Hill Restaurant

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Ok… I want to talk about something super important in your wedding day – possibly the most important part of that one very special day.  Stress…

We all know (all of us girls who have had to plan our own weddings) that weddings can be very stressful.  I mean, if you think about it – most of us are not wedding planners.  We probably have never planned an event of this magnitude ever in our lives.  So all of the sudden we are expected to plan a full-scale gorgeous wedding (sometimes while keeping a tight budget)!?!?!  Seriously… it can make a woman a little nutty – especially if we still have to keep our jobs and every day responsibilities!  (hence… why I absolutely LOVE wedding planners… they are the angels of the wedding industry! LOL!!).  Needless to say… I understand all the stress… really, I do. 

So you have stressed out for months (sometimes even years) planning this wedding… agonizing over every little detail.  You’ve invested a pretty penny on gorgeous flowers, reception hall, cake, video/photo.. etc.  So after the wedding, when you’ve received your wedding photos (and/or video) –what do you realize? That you neglected to smile ONCE during your entire day!!!  OMG!!!!!  All of that money, all of that planning – and you have an album full of images where you look like you’re physically  in pain!?!?!

Girls… please… I can’t emphasize this enough – PLEASE…. ENJOY YOUR WEDDING DAY.

I always tell all of my clients the week before the wedding – do all the last minute stressing the last week, heck – do it the last night if you have to… get it all out of your system.  Go nuts trying to get all the details absolutely perfect if you must.  But on your wedding day – please just let it be… relax…. SMILE.  No matter what happens… even if things don’t go exactly as planned (Trust me, they rarely do) – just let it go.  You probably won’t be able to fix anything at that point anymore… you’ll just be stressing yourself out in vain.  Just let things slide off, and enjoy your day.  I mean, seriously… as long as you and the love of your life are tying the knot… that’s what matters the most.. that’s why you’re both there.  So if you said your ‘I do’s’ – then consider the day a success!  The rest is just icing on that wonderful cupcake!!! 

I’m not necessarily saying that you need to smile all day long… or for every single picture.  But even in pictures where the bride isn’t smiling… where it looks like she’s contemplating something – she is still glowing, and you can see the smile in her eyes… that comes from happiness and sheer joy. 

I can’t tell you how sad it is to see a bride that is so stressed out that she can’t even force herself to smile.  As a photographer… I wish I could give her some peace… something to smile about.  I know sometimes things can get stressful… and I always remind my clients to smile… relax… enjoy.  I sometimes even take them away from the wedding day ‘chaos’ during the bride and groom shots (away from family and friends) – because sometimes that helps to clear their minds.  Luckily I haven’t had any cases where nothing I do works, but I have been to weddings as a guest where nothing at all works.  Do you really want to see those wedding pictures 10 years down the line and only remember how stressed you were? 

Remember that even the most amazing photographer in the world can’t add that smile and glow to your face if you’re truly so upset. 

Enjoy your day… you’re there with your family, your friends, your love.  Relax, (maybe have a nice drink), enjoy the food, the fun… and SMILE.

 

Beautiful and glowing bride... notice how she's not smiling, yet her glow is beautiful

Beautiful and glowing bride... notice how she's not smiling, yet her glow is beautiful

 

Same bride... now smiling beautifully!!!

Same bride... now smiling beautifully!!!

 

Even though she's not smiling... she looks absolutely stunning!

Even though she's not smiling... she looks absolutely stunning!

 

without even looking at the camera, this beautiful bride just glows!

without even looking at the camera, this beautiful bride just glows!

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One of the biggest questions I get with regards to photography is whether the bride and groom really need a shot list or not, and what the best plan is to get through the formals would be.  What do you do if the formals are outdoors in the middle of summer in a hot place (like the dessert or Palm Springs!!!)???.  So what’s the best plan to maximize your pictures, but at the same time keep your bridal party happy (and smiling!!!).  First and foremost… the best piece of advice I can give my summer couples are to bring water for everyone.  Trust me, your bridal party will appreciate it so much that they won’t mind putting up with 130 degree weather!  So with that out  of the way… how long do you need for formals? What if you are short on time? What can be done to go as quickly as possible?

I am the type of person that likes to be prepared… I like to know what my timeline will be like so that I can keep things in line if necessary.  I think I have mentioned this story before, but it’s such a great example of how things can go wrong so easily, that I have to mention it again.  I did a wedding once where I asked the bride ahead of time how the formals were going to play out, and if she had a lot of formals that we needed to take care of (we had less than an hour to officially shoot the formals, which is typically a decent amount of time).  She said she just wanted to ‘play it by ear’ and just kind of go with the flow.  I insisted on trying to get a plan set up, but she thought she didn’t need it.  So, as the photographer, I now realize I should have pressed harder… but I didn’t want to add any extra stress on her, so I let it go.  Well… ceremony was over, and it was time for formals.  She initially said it was just going to be immediate family… boy was that a slight understatement!  She ended up posing for individual shots with pretty much her entire family (from parents, of course, to cousins, aunts, uncles, second cousins, friend of the uncle’s cousin, etc!!!).  It took us over 1.5 hours to get through all those pictures!!! Most of that time was spent trying to get people moving along and get the groups set up and figuring out who was next.  You know… the typical “wait, we’re waiting for uncle so and so, he’s out in the back getting a drink, he’ll be back in 2 seconds, wait… don’t take the shot yet”.  That type of thing can make a 2 minute portrait into a 15 minute waiting session.  In the end, we only took one super quick shot of the entire bridal party, and a couple of shots of the bride and groom.  I have to say it was personally (photography-wise) one of the most disappointing weddings I have done… mostly because I know she emphasized how much she wanted the bride and groom shots… but it just got out of control… it totally slipped out of her hands and unfortunately she never let me have control of the day so that I could coordinate it properly.  In the end she really liked her pictures and all was well… I just knew I could have done better for her… so to her all was well, but to me I wish it would have been better.

That is probably the absolute worst case scenario, and one that has only happened to me once (and I fight very hard for that not to happen again… for the bride and groom’s sake).  So back to the formals and my recommended workflow.  I should say first of all, that this is MY work flow, and in no way am I saying this is the best way to do it or the only way to do it right – this is just how I have noticed works best for me and for my clients.

Typically for formals I start off getting the family portraits out of the way first and foremost.  I like to dismiss people as I go along – to clear the area and end up with a more private bride and groom setting at the end.  In terms of the family portraits… I typically calculate about 2 minutes per portrait on average.  Sure, taking the actual shot takes a few seconds, but getting the group together and smiling at the same time can take a little longer.  Sometimes, with larger groups, it can take like 5 minutes to get everyone settled, organized and ready for the shot (this is for groups that are huge, of course).  But on average, 2 minutes per portrait is how I figure out how long it will take to get a group done.  So if the bride give me a shot list with 15 different groups of people, that’s 30 minutes right there.  Of course, a lot of times it will not take that long, but we would rather have extra time then not enough (especially when we are on a tight timeline).  This past weekend I had a wedding where the bride wanted all the formal family portraits done at the altar, and the church only gave her 15 minutes after the ceremony.  Sometimes the churches will let us do more time, but this particular church actually shut the lights totally off on us at the 15 minute mark on the dot!!!  So it was good that we had everything scheduled and it turned out perfect. 

After the family portraits are done, I like to continue with the bridal party.  Hopefully with less of a crowd, everyone is more likely to have more fun, be more relaxed, and be willing to be themselves for the camera.

After the bridal party is done I let them know they can relax (they either head out to the reception or wander off) – leaving the bride and groom alone with me and my second photographer.  This is the ideal situation for most couples because they don’t feel like they’re putting on a show for their friends… and they can truly be themselves (they can be romantic, fun, silly, and they won’t feel so embarrassed).  This is especially important to me if the bride and groom are particularly shy.  Of course, some couples feed off the encouragement of their friends, and that’s great too! That’s when I definitely encourage the bridal party to stick around and be our cheerleaders. 

So that’s basically my typical formals ‘flow’ for most of my weddings… my main ‘theme’ is definitely to be a little organized… but I am by no means super strict and these are not set in stone rules.  I believe weddings need to have a lot of wiggle room, and a good wedding photographer has to be prepared to go with the flow when necessary… especially to keep the bride and groom at ease and without feeling like you’re only adding to their stress. I have had weddings when everything was all planned out and structured, but then nothing seemed to work out according to our timelines… and that was ok.  We went with the flow, re-assured the bride and groom that everything would work out, and made sure they felt as relaxed as possible – and in the end, it was all great too!  Stress is my worst enemy… nothing can make stress show less in a picture.  I definitely try to do all my nagging done before the wedding… so that on the wedding day I can just remind and not have to push my clients! LOL!!

 

Formals session for a beautiful and casual wedding - at downtown Riverside, near the Mission Inn

Formals session for a beautiful and casual wedding - at downtown Riverside, near the Mission Inn

So I obviously keep forgetting to update my blog… I definitely need to get used to writing more often.  The good news is that I now have a list of article subjects all ready to type out (hopefully more often).  I am working on one at the moment, but in the mean time I wanted to showcase an amazing wedding I did last month… there was such an incredible amount of pictures from it, that it took me forever to go through all of them.  Here are just a few dozen of my absolute favorite ones. 

The wedding was at the CBS studio lot, at their New York Street set.  It was amazingly realistic, especially in pictures!!!  I loved working with Jenn and Seth, they were such a romantic, yet modern couple!  They really liked to have fun. 

Check out her shoes!!! I thought they were so great!!!

Super cute and modern wedding shoes!!!!

Super cute and modern wedding shoes!!!!

 

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Right outside the beautiful church

Right outside the beautiful church

 

Check out how realistic these buildings at CBS studios are!!!

Check out how realistic these buildings at CBS studios are!!!

 

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Gorgeous wedding cake!!!

 

Beautiful wedding cake details

Beautiful wedding cake details

 

I loved her floral arrangements!! I definitely have to get her florist's number!!!

I loved her floral arrangements!! I definitely have to get her florist's number!!!

 

Reception at CBS Studios - check out the sign on the 'theater'!!!

Reception at CBS Studios - check out the sign on the 'theater'!!!Is this like a wedding in New York street or what!!! AMAZING Wedding!!!Is this like a wedding in New York street or what!!! AMAZING Wedding!!!

Is this like a wedding in New York street or what!!! AMAZING Wedding!!!

Is this like a wedding in New York street or what!!! AMAZING Wedding!!!

So the love of your life has finally popped the question… you’ve told family and friends… you’ve probably already started planning your day, and are now realizing that it’s not as easy as you thought!!!  Flowers, caterers, dresses, cakes, favors, napkins, so many things to plan!!!!  So when do you start looking for the professionals that will capture all of those details that you have planned out… the wedding photographer and videographer?  I can’t speak much for the wedding videographer, since that’s not my specialty, but I can sure give you some tips for looking for and choosing the right photographer for you.

There are many things to consider when it comes to finding the right photographer for your specific needs… sure there are tons and tons of photographers (thousands in the L.A. area alone!!!), and it will be a little mind-boggling at first, trust me.  So first… take a deep breath and consider a few things.  I always recommend to sit down (before you even start looking) and write down your needs… what you want, what you expect, and what you want to pay to get it.  Now … toss it all out the window, but keep it in the back of your head. 

First let’s think about what you do want out of your photographer… what is it that is most important to you?  Do you want a traditional photographer, photojournalistic, editorial? (feel free to read my previous post where I discuss the difference of those 3 styles).  Do you want to get time only, or prints as well? What kind of album do you want?  All of these things will play a huge role in your final decision.  Remember that whatever you get now will be an heirloom for your family for generations to come.  So do you want to settle for just ‘whatever’, are you ok with friends just taking pictures from those disposable cameras, or do you want to have something that will last a lifetime…

With photography, as with anything wedding related… you can get pretty much anything your heart desires – as long as you are willing to pay for it, of course.  So you want an amazing photographer to document your entire event, with 3 assistants, plus you want the CD of all the images, 2 deluxe parent’s albums, and an amazing wedding album for you made out of ostrich leather with a solid gold plaque engraved with your names on it and encrusted with diamonds? No problem!!!! …as long as you’re willing to pay for it, of course.   (yes.. that album does exist – and trust me, I nearly fainted when I saw the price for just printing it!!!! I can only imagine what it would cost for an actual bride after designer fees have been applied!)

I honestly believe that the trick is to finding a good balance between what you want to receive and then reconcile that with the budget you have for your wedding photography. 

So look around on-line, visit photographer’s websites… look at what they can do with images.  Personally, when I got married, I would not consider photographers that had a portfolio that had one image from each wedding all mixed into one gallery – I personally wanted to see more images from one particular wedding (at least 24 images from one event, but the more they showed the better).  I liked to get a better idea of what my wedding images might look like. I mean, if a photographer shot 2000 images, of course they can find one to showcase and add to their portfolio… I want to see more than one… I didn’t like the idea of just having one great wedding image from my wedding day.  Of course, like I said, that is just my personal opinion… I think that’s why I like to show tons of images from each event in my galleries (I have anywhere from 80-100 images per event in each one of the wedding galleries in my portfolio). 

Once you see what style you like, look at what they have to offer in their packages.  Do they offer packages or all a-la-carte?  What do the packages include? CD of images? How many hours? Album? What kind of album? Prints?  One thing I always emphasize to my clients is the fact that I color correct each individual image before they even go on the on-line gallery, and it is those color corrected images that are in the CD that they will receive.  This is important because some photographers give you the images “as-is… right off the camera” – that means that they may not be at their best saturation.  Sure, the prints you get from them will look good since they would surely color correct those images before sending them off to the lab, but what about the images you see on YOUR CD?  I personally like to know that any image ‘out there’ that I took will look great!

With the album in mind – ask what kind of album you will get.  Traditional? Matted? Coffee table album? Leather album? Hand made album? There are so many types of albums out there!  I personally offer the coffee table albums (linen and fully designed cover) and the deluxe leather lay flat albums as well.  You might also want to ask who designs the album? Does the photographer do the designing? Using templates? Or custom designed from scratch? Does he/she send it out to an album design company?  Do you get to see the album design before it’s printed out?  I personally feel it’s very important to see what the album will look like before it’s printed… but I know not all photographers do that.  And what happens if you need changes made?  Is there an additional fee for those changes? (This is usually the case if the photographer isn’t designing the album himself… he will most likely have to pass on the cost that he will incur from the album design company that he or she uses).  I personally design all of my albums individually (from scratch) – no templates or third party companies to worry about.  But I know this is not always the case… I happen to be a graphic designer, so I like to have full control of my own designs.

If you feel like they offer great quality, but you might not be able to afford the packages initially, maybe you can inquire about a-la-carte options… maybe the most important thing to YOU is to get them to shoot your wedding day, then you can worry about everything else later… so just ask for their hourly rate or a services-only package.  But beware that a la carte options usually tend to run more expensive in the long run than an actual package … but, it usually also means that you don’t have to pay too much up front. 

Another very important thing to consider is the deposit/retainer to hold the date. Most vendors in the wedding industry require a percentage as a deposit – anywhere from 20% up to 50% or sometimes more.  Think of that when looking for any of your vendors.  When I was shopping around for photography for my own wedding, I did notice most photographers that I interviewed charged 40-50% up front… the photographer I chose to hire only required $100 non-refundable deposit… and I loved that! It was such a huge relief to not have to worry about that payment at that point.  So that’s what I require from my own clients… just $100 to hold the date.

So now to what I believe is a vital part to consider – the chemistry between you and the photographer.  Remember that the photographer will literally be your shadow for the bulk of your wedding day – they will be right there no matter where you turn… so you want to make sure that you definitely feel comfortable with them… make sure you trust them and that you have good ‘chemistry’.  The more relaxed you are around them and their camera, the better your images will turn out!  If you feel tense and stressed out it WILL show.  I like to make sure that my clients are super comfortable with me… we laugh, we share jokes, we relax together – that way the images look more natural and more intimate.  When you interview your potential photographers try to pick up on what their personalities are like… aside from their profession, do they seem relaxed, do they seem like they would go with the flow- while still having a strong enough personality to take charge when they need to?

I guess there is no easy way to ‘weed through’ all of the photographers that are out there ready to capture the beauty of your wedding day… just make sure you feel comfortable with whoever you choose and that you trust them professionally and artistically!

Flower girl looking on as the bride gets ready for her wedding day

Flower girl looking on as the bride gets ready for her wedding day