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Ok… I want to talk about something super important in your wedding day – possibly the most important part of that one very special day.  Stress…

We all know (all of us girls who have had to plan our own weddings) that weddings can be very stressful.  I mean, if you think about it – most of us are not wedding planners.  We probably have never planned an event of this magnitude ever in our lives.  So all of the sudden we are expected to plan a full-scale gorgeous wedding (sometimes while keeping a tight budget)!?!?!  Seriously… it can make a woman a little nutty – especially if we still have to keep our jobs and every day responsibilities!  (hence… why I absolutely LOVE wedding planners… they are the angels of the wedding industry! LOL!!).  Needless to say… I understand all the stress… really, I do. 

So you have stressed out for months (sometimes even years) planning this wedding… agonizing over every little detail.  You’ve invested a pretty penny on gorgeous flowers, reception hall, cake, video/photo.. etc.  So after the wedding, when you’ve received your wedding photos (and/or video) –what do you realize? That you neglected to smile ONCE during your entire day!!!  OMG!!!!!  All of that money, all of that planning – and you have an album full of images where you look like you’re physically  in pain!?!?!

Girls… please… I can’t emphasize this enough – PLEASE…. ENJOY YOUR WEDDING DAY.

I always tell all of my clients the week before the wedding – do all the last minute stressing the last week, heck – do it the last night if you have to… get it all out of your system.  Go nuts trying to get all the details absolutely perfect if you must.  But on your wedding day – please just let it be… relax…. SMILE.  No matter what happens… even if things don’t go exactly as planned (Trust me, they rarely do) – just let it go.  You probably won’t be able to fix anything at that point anymore… you’ll just be stressing yourself out in vain.  Just let things slide off, and enjoy your day.  I mean, seriously… as long as you and the love of your life are tying the knot… that’s what matters the most.. that’s why you’re both there.  So if you said your ‘I do’s’ – then consider the day a success!  The rest is just icing on that wonderful cupcake!!! 

I’m not necessarily saying that you need to smile all day long… or for every single picture.  But even in pictures where the bride isn’t smiling… where it looks like she’s contemplating something – she is still glowing, and you can see the smile in her eyes… that comes from happiness and sheer joy. 

I can’t tell you how sad it is to see a bride that is so stressed out that she can’t even force herself to smile.  As a photographer… I wish I could give her some peace… something to smile about.  I know sometimes things can get stressful… and I always remind my clients to smile… relax… enjoy.  I sometimes even take them away from the wedding day ‘chaos’ during the bride and groom shots (away from family and friends) – because sometimes that helps to clear their minds.  Luckily I haven’t had any cases where nothing I do works, but I have been to weddings as a guest where nothing at all works.  Do you really want to see those wedding pictures 10 years down the line and only remember how stressed you were? 

Remember that even the most amazing photographer in the world can’t add that smile and glow to your face if you’re truly so upset. 

Enjoy your day… you’re there with your family, your friends, your love.  Relax, (maybe have a nice drink), enjoy the food, the fun… and SMILE.

 

Beautiful and glowing bride... notice how she's not smiling, yet her glow is beautiful

Beautiful and glowing bride... notice how she's not smiling, yet her glow is beautiful

 

Same bride... now smiling beautifully!!!

Same bride... now smiling beautifully!!!

 

Even though she's not smiling... she looks absolutely stunning!

Even though she's not smiling... she looks absolutely stunning!

 

without even looking at the camera, this beautiful bride just glows!

without even looking at the camera, this beautiful bride just glows!

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This part of the wedding day is a part that some brides really like to have in their collection of images, while others don’t really care for them much.  It’s definitely not a vital part of the day, but if it can be fit into timeline of events, and if you don’t mind the photographer being there – then it can add to the overall story of your wedding day.

Personally, I didn’t have any getting ready images of my wedding day.  I was a little self-conscious about having my photographer there while I was getting ready – but then again, my photographer was a man.  I actually had to drive to the hair salon to get my hair done (as well as my bridesmaids and my mom), and I did my own makeup (as well as my bridesmaids and my mom) – and we started really early in the morning, so I didn’t feel it was necessary to have him there at that time.  I also knew we would be too rushed and I didn’t really want him getting in my way (not that he did, but I know how I am – the more people are in a room when I’m stressed… the more frustrated I can become).  So that’s why I decided to forego any getting ready images on my own wedding day… but it is definitely something every bride should consider. 

So what does the getting ready include?  Well… that’s entirely up to you .  It can be everything from the beginning of the makeup/hair, or just the last few minutes, or just the putting on of the dress, or just the getting out of the house.  I have done each one of those scenarios at one point or another.  I always recommend to think about what you really want pictures of.  Do you want pictures of you without your makeup on at all?  Do you want pictures of the play-by-play process of your hair getting done?  Remember that getting your  hair done can take a while – and you really won’t have much variety of images (they’ll all look similar since there really isn’t much movement).  So would you like a ton of images of your hair getting done? Or just a few final shots (like the last steps of the hair do?).  Same thing goes for the makeup… you can have  your photographer be there the entire time… or just the last few minutes – when you’re getting you’re  putting on your lipstick and possibly blush.  Then you can decide if you want to have the photographer shoot the putting on of the dress… these are the most popular (and can be the most beautiful) shots of the getting ready portion of the day.  Here, you can also decide what part of the putting on of the dress you would like to have.  Do you want him/her to shoot you putting on the undergarments (like the corset/bra/petticoat)? Or would you like to start once you’re putting the dress over your head (or walking into the dress)? Or until after it’s on… do you want just the zipping up of the dress?  I always tell my clients to call me in when they’re ready and comfortable with us starting to shoot.  Some brides are very open and comfortable from the beginning, while others just want the zipping up of the dress – and either way is perfectly fine.  So definitely think about what you are comfortable with…and discuss it with your photographer.  Remember that if you will be getting an on-line gallery, all of these images will go on there as well… if you would like to shoot from the beginning, but don’t want some of these on the gallery – make sure to tell your photographer so that they exclude them from the gallery. 

During this time before the ceremony, if you have some extra time, you can always take advantage and shoots some family portraits that you can take off your list of formal shots. 

So how long do you really need for getting ready shots? Typically I recommend about 1 to 1.5 hours tops – but I have done getting ready shots in as little as 15 minutes (when the bride has a limited timeline but still wants these shots).  Typically I start the day one the hair has been started, so we capture the last phases of the hair do process, and plenty of the putting on of the makeup.  I usually don’t recommend starting earlier than that because typically you will not want to see hundreds of images of the play-by-play of each strand of hair being put in place.  In the couple of occasions when I have had to do them in 15 minutes or less, that’s usually because we are low on time – so the bride and I have discussed ways to be efficient during this time.  This means that their hair and makeup are totally done – I shoot her putting on her lipstick and touching up her blush – this creates the look of those shots and only takes a few seconds.  Then we shoot her putting on her jewelry (also just a few seconds).  Then the dress, and the shoes … all done the last 10 minutes (since the dress can take a while to put on depending on the number of buttons or lace-ups).  Then we’re off to the ceremony!  I know it seems quite rushed, but it can be done!

So make sure you discuss your getting ready needs with your photographer…you guys can come up with a good timeline and discuss what you would like to capture. 

Getting Ready series...

Getting Ready series...

Photojournalistic means a ‘hands-off’ approach to photography, where your photographer is there to observe and document your day as it happens without interfering or interrupting the events to say ‘cheese’.  In essence, it is a very sincere way of capturing the story of your wedding day, as a true story-telling of the event.

Photojournalistic wedding photography is great… especially If you guys are animated, excited, and are willing to be yourselves.  By ‘you’ I mean not only the bride and groom, but I also mean the bridal party and even your guests.  If you guys are not afraid to show your sincere emotions (whether it’s happiness, excitement, nervousness, sadness, etc), then photojournalism is a great approach for you.  If you know that your family, your bridal party, or even you and/or your fiance are shy and are a little embarrassed in front of the camera, then that means they might not be willing to be themselves when they sense that they are being photographed.  Some people show their emotions in their eyes… in their smiles… in their expressions (I know I’m like that) – but then when the camera is around, they’re afraid of looking odd, or of looking imperfect (that’s me too) – in this case, a 100% pure photojournalistic approach might not be the best choice for the entire event.  I know we have all seen those amazing photojournalistic photographer’s websites… with their images full of emotion and drama… and we all want to look just like that!!!  Keep one little thing in mind… even the best of photographers only display the best of the best of their work… so out of hundreds of weddings, they can only display a few of them, which would always be their best work – and some of that work might not have been 100% photojournalistic… some of that work might have been ‘guided’ or they might have taken an ‘editorial’ approach instead. 

Editorial photography is different in the sense that it is posed, but the poses are not traditional poses, they are guided and have a specific ‘look‘ to them.  Think of editorial photography as the style that you see all throughout the wedding magazines. 

A truly 100% photojournalistic approach does require that everyone in the event is aware of the photographer and his camera.  Even though the photographer won’t be interfering in the event, the bridal party must be aware of the camera, so that they don’t block him/her off or prevent access to intimate moments.  Not that these moments would be prevented on purpose, but in social situations most people get really excited in their little group and we tend to form a circle of conversation -  keep the photographer’s presence in mind so that that circle doesn’t close him off.  Give the photographer access to your fun and to your intimate moments – because those are the moments you’ll want to remember forever!  Keeping that in mind will give you a better understanding of what you are asking your photographer when you ask him/her to take a photojournalistic approach.

I personally love capturing intimate moments – they’re so full of sincerer and emotions!!!  But I do have to admit that most of the brides that I encounter do not request a 100% photojournalistic approach, but rather a combination of styles throughout the day (photojournalistic, editorial, and even traditional – all in one event).  And I do think that this combination works great and gives you the most complete and rounded portfolio of images to choose from. 

During the getting ready portion, I do try to stand back and capture the excitement of the beginning of the  day.  Although I am known to throw a few directions/suggestions in the mix.  It might be that the bride was leaning down as she was putting on her shoes, and the light hit her hair ever so perfectly… I might say ‘hold it right there for a moment.’ 

During the ceremony it’s all photojournalistic, as you can imagine. 

During the formals is usually where the more guided poses take place.  A wedding is a joyful event when family and friends get together to celebrate the happiness of the couple… and this coming together may not happen often (sometimes weddings are the only time when they get together, and is therefore the most convenient moment for a long-overdue portrait).  Because of this, parents of the couples usually want to have formal family portraits – which they like to be traditional and posed.  So we take care of these, of course.  For the bridal party shots we take a couple of formal posed shots; then, if the bridal party is ‘game’ we’ll do some fun shots or unconventional posing – editorial style.  Once again, we try to read the bridal party to see what they are comfortable with… and if they would prefer simple, traditional, posed shots, then that’s fine – if they feel like having fun and jumping around, then we’ll jump right along with them (and capture great shots along the way!). 

As for the bride and groom portraits… once again, I like to take the formal portraits (although I do try to make the shots more modern and editorial in style so that even if the pose is a little traditional, it will still be an amazing portrait).  So I do take traditional shots of the bride and groom, but I definitely try to bring out their personalities as much as possible – so we make the shots fun and exciting, with a hint of romance and love of course.  I also play with different angles to give the shots a more modern look. 

The reception is definitely all photojournalistic; I definitely focus on capturing the fun and excitement of the reception.  I might give directions for the cake cutting (only if I think a certain angle will work best for the lighting), but for any other event of the day I try to blend in and just capture the events as they happen. 

So what is best for you?  If you are very particular about what you want to see in the final images, then that is something you want to discuss with your photographer.  Remember to keep your family and friends in mind… if you want a truly 100% photojournalistic approach, and you know your bridal party is shy and you know they might not wear their emotions openly – then keep in mind that your photographer will most likely have to interfere here and there to capture the best shots for you. 

Whether it’s photojournalistic, traditional, editorial, or a combination – my main goal is always to tell the story of your wedding day, so that one day those images will tell the story of your wedding day to your children and to your grandchildren.  I think that is the main goal of all photographers – to capture those special moments so that they can be treasured for generations to come.

An amazingly fun and funky first dance to remember!!!

An amazingly fun and funky first dance to remember!!!

Here we go…

February 13, 2009

So, I finally decided to dive in and join the world of blogging!!! (yes… I do realize I’m probably one of the last ones to join… J).  To be honest, I had no clue how to even start, or how this whole thing works… it literally took me a month (at least) of going back and forth trying to figure out how to do the ‘blog theme’ set up!!! LOL!!!

I decided to start a blog to not only let my clients and potential clients get to know me a little better, and to give them updates on what I’m up to, but to also create a place filled with tips and tricks that I have learned as a photographer.  My clients always ask my opinions on what will look good on camera, how they should dress… makeup, hair, accessories – and I’m always glad to help.  I am always surrounded by all sorts of scenarios and all sorts of environments – and I know that sometimes even though something looks good in person, it might not look so good on film.  I want to pass those ‘real-world’ tips – even the smallest tip can make a huge difference!  I know there are thousands of wedding planning sites that are great resources, but when I was planning my own wedding I always wanted to ask for tips from someone who was actually there… at ‘real-world’ weddings (not just the unbelievable ‘dream’ weddings that a lot of magazines and websites showcase).  I want to showcase weddings from real brides… with all sorts of budgets and all sorts of circumstances. 

In no way do I think I’m the ‘authority’ on any of my tips… but I’ll just be posting about things that I notice, hopefully it can help a bride out there decide whether to wear glitter or no glitter on her wedding day (hint… hint…. No glitter is best J).

So, since this is a photography blog… here is one of my favorite images:

Romantic Engagement Session at Laguna Beach

Romantic Engagement Session at Laguna Beach